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[feotakahari]

For real, though, I actually do think fics about how women all want/deserve to be abused are more of a threat than fics about how how children all want/deserve to be abused. But that's not a property of the fics themselves! That's a property of bitter all-male social spaces that convince themselves women all want/deserve to be abused. Fics about abusing kids are less of a threat to the extent that social spaces that justify abusing kids are less common. (Existent and horrifying, but less common.) And I think fics about abusing women will become less of a threat if we can convince people to leave social spaces that justify abusing women. I don't judge or hate people for their fics, and it seems like people still write these fics even when they're in a healthier social circle and don't believe all that stuff.

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[feotakahari]

Yeah, I was talking in terms of sexual abuse. I haven’t personally encountered nonsexual child abuse that parallels the whole “women say they don’t want to be abused, but if you do it to them, they’ll enjoy it” thing. (Not saying it doesn’t exist, just that I haven’t encountered it.) I was thinking more in terms of people like Oliver O’Grady: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deliver_Us_from_Evil_(2006_film)

(I once saw an investigative article into an anonymous forum by and for child molesters. It was probably the worst thing I’ve seen in my life.)