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feotakahariA series of posts I saw on Tumblr:
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the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men
this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men
to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying 'go date women instead!!' its just saying.... u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy... u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men
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OP also thinks that trans men should be allowed to compete in men’s athletics, which means OP is probably NOT a TERF. So what exactly is it about their speech patterns that screams “TERF” so loud? The whole time I was reading their blog, I was thinking “This is exactly how TERFs talk,” and I can’t quite figure out why.
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the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men
this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men
to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying 'go date women instead!!' its just saying.... u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy... u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men
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OP also thinks that trans men should be allowed to compete in men’s athletics, which means OP is probably NOT a TERF. So what exactly is it about their speech patterns that screams “TERF” so loud? The whole time I was reading their blog, I was thinking “This is exactly how TERFs talk,” and I can’t quite figure out why.
