From another post: “please understand that you won't recognize a creep the way you might think you will. If you're not the preferred prey, the hind-brain alarm won't go off. You have to listen to victims, not your gut feeling that the person seems perfectly nice and normal. It doesn't mean there's never a false accusation, but face the fact that it's usually real, and you don't have enough information to say otherwise.”
This take is too fucking useful to trust. “You can’t trust your judgment that this person isn’t a predator, because you’re not the target. I can trust my judgment that this person is a predator, because I am the target. I know I’m a target because my judgment says this person is a predator. So if I say someone’s a predator, you should shut the fuck up and agree with me.”
I’m pretty sure none of us can consistently judge who the predators are. That’s why you need to look at people’s track record, not just declare that your “hindbrain” can magically identify predators.