1. An idea I see a lot on the Internet is that men need to be terrified of women who will harass them for existing while male. I’m huge, hairy, and socially awkward, but I only get harassed for seeming overly male when I’m on the Internet. I have no idea what to make of this.
2. This is sometimes paired with the idea that men need to be terrified of men who will beat, harass, or sexually assault them for being insufficiently masculine. I’ve read about this a lot in books, especially when the target is gay, but I’ve never actually seen it happen. Again, I have no idea what to make of this.
3. The language in use often frames women as helpless trauma victims who cannot stop themselves from harassing men for being male. This is bullshit. You may not control how you feel, but you definitely control who you harass.
2. This is sometimes paired with the idea that men need to be terrified of men who will beat, harass, or sexually assault them for being insufficiently masculine. I’ve read about this a lot in books, especially when the target is gay, but I’ve never actually seen it happen. Again, I have no idea what to make of this.
3. The language in use often frames women as helpless trauma victims who cannot stop themselves from harassing men for being male. This is bullshit. You may not control how you feel, but you definitely control who you harass.