You dont owe him anything. When people come at you about this, explain that you gave him your tries back when he was being a jerk and your tries are all gone now. Maybe he will be such a changed person someday that you will want him back in your life. But right now he is still in the Experiencing Consequences phase of becoming that better person.
Maybe it will never happen, but right now this is how you feel. Being forced to pretend friendship is only going to make you resent him, them, and the whole situation.
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Date: 2019-01-14 03:07 pm (UTC)You dont owe him anything. When people come at you about this, explain that you gave him your tries back when he was being a jerk and your tries are all gone now. Maybe he will be such a changed person someday that you will want him back in your life. But right now he is still in the Experiencing Consequences phase of becoming that better person.
Maybe it will never happen, but right now this is how you feel. Being forced to pretend friendship is only going to make you resent him, them, and the whole situation.