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Jan. 9th, 2023 01:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
feotakahariI’m not gonna tag OP, because I’m being rude here. I’m just thinking out loud.
So, you identify as female, and you present as masc, and to you, there’s no contradiction there. You’re happy with having a masc-looking body.
You pursue lesbians, and things get “awkward” real fast.
So why not pursue people who’re attracted to masc-looking bodies? Because frankly, it seems like you’re pinning too much of your identity as a lesbian on the idea of dating lesbians. If a straight girl thinks you’re cute, and she’s willing to call you “she,” what’s the problem?
So, you identify as female, and you present as masc, and to you, there’s no contradiction there. You’re happy with having a masc-looking body.
You pursue lesbians, and things get “awkward” real fast.
So why not pursue people who’re attracted to masc-looking bodies? Because frankly, it seems like you’re pinning too much of your identity as a lesbian on the idea of dating lesbians. If a straight girl thinks you’re cute, and she’s willing to call you “she,” what’s the problem?
