Originally posted in response to Angela Vondra’s suicide

[feotakahari]

One of Ang’s harassers lost . . . Some kind of job? I’m not clear on the details, and I don’t want to name him or drag him into this further. Anyway, people are now arguing back and forth about whether he’s the victim or Ang’s the victim, and it reminds me way too much of when people argued whether Zoe Quinn or her ex was the victim, as if that fucking mattered to people other than Quinn and her ex. All of this stuff should be individual people yelling at each other, not thousands of people choosing sides!

I started thinking about whether I’d be willing to say “stop trying to get people fired for racist Twitter posts” or “stop trying to get people fired for attending political rallies,” and honestly, I’d say yes. I don’t trust you all to even identify the right person.