Originally written in response to one of those posts about how subby women are all brainwashed

[feotakahari]

I expected OP to be a TERF. Turns out they’re fundamentally and impressively the opposite. They’re so in on “gender is a social construct” that they don’t identify as a woman, because the social construct of “woman” demands someone who has heterosexual patriarchal sex, and they’re a lesbian. Which actually undermines this argument MORE than when the TERFs make it. If you accept the argument that lesbians aren’t women, and lesbians can love being subby, then there must be more to being subby than the oppression of women.

(They blocked me, of course.)